Rocky has learned to invite play with small dogs by keeping a low posture. Notice his soft expression and low ears-- all designed to show peaceful intent.

WHY SOCIALIZE?

1. Your Dog's Own Safety

Dogs who have been well socialized learn how to 'read' other dogs. They manage to avoid conflict by learning how to approach strange dogs, by telegraphing peaceful intention, and by using calming signals to defuse aggression.

2. The Safety of Others, Including human beings.

There are many things dogs only learn from other dogs. They learn to interact differently with dogs of different sizes or ages. ("Chase" may be fun for some dogs, while others prefer games that are a little slower or more gentle.) A knowledge of appropriate play can make a big difference at the dog park or when family visit.

One of the most important lessons taught by other dogs is bite inhibition. Any dog is capable of biting-- either another dog or a human being (as in "Keep away from my bone!"), but a well-socialized dog goes through a whole hierarchy of responses before resorting to a bite.
First, there's "The Look", then, "The Lip Curl". That may be followed by a low growl, then a snap. Even when resorting to a bite, the well-socialized dog will first nip. It's a pinching bite to let the other know that he means business. A penetrating bite is the most severe response. This is why it's important for owners not to punish their dogs for growling. If you take away steps 2 and 3, the dog has no other option but to jump from "The Look" to "The Bite". After all, he has to protect himself.

A confident Beau meets an equally confident Daisy.

How Rude! Rude? Not really. In the dog world this behavior is perfectly acceptable. Deucey has learned to stand still when meeting other dogs, so that they can smell her.

3. Your Dog's Mental Health.

Dogs who spend time with other dogs are more self-controlled, happier and better balanced. They gain confidence and their calm demeanor makes them welcome wherever they go.

4. Your Mental Health.

Ever had to travel with a dog who is not socialized? It's hard to enjoy yourself when you are anxiously anticipating your dog's every encounter. Plus, after a hppy romp with other dogs, Fido will be pleasantly tired and relaxed-- so you can be, too!

Jade lets Odie know that he's out of line.

A confident dog is not overly submissive. Toby and Lily have learned to play with larger dogs by playing on their terms only. They decide on the game.